As people lose the ability to govern themselves internally, their desire increases to be governed externally.
Report: Gay community really not into marriage?
April 30, 2009 at 2:35 pm (Philosophy & Religion, Politics)
Tags: civil unions, cohabitating, cohabitation, family, gay marriage, heterosexuality, homosexuality, marriage, relationships, traditional marriage
I recently read a report analyzing the statistical differences between heterosexual and homosexual couples in several aspects. Among the report’s findings were the following:
- Most gay people don’t enter long-term partnerships, and those partnerships that do exist don’t last as long as heterosexual marriages, on average
- In places where gay “marriage” is officially sanctioned, very few gay couples take advantage of it compared to the percentage of heterosexuals who get married
- For many gay men, the definition of marriage does not include exclusivity or fidelity
If these things are true, then I’m confused: Why is the pro-gay political lobby in the U.S. fighting for the same marriage rights as heterosexuals, when the data would indicate that their community at large isn’t that interested?
Is marriage a right?
October 31, 2008 at 4:38 pm (Philosophy & Religion, Politics)
Tags: gay marriage, heterosexuality, homosexuality, marriage, proposition 8, traditional marriage
Is marriage a right? If so, then why does it require a license? Could it be that marriage is merely a privilege?
I’ve heard a lot of talk about rights in the ongoing debate over marriage in the U.S., but I’m wondering whether people are using the wrong vocabulary.
disagreement = hate?
October 23, 2008 at 8:07 pm (Life Observations, Philosophy & Religion, Politics)
Tags: disagreement, diversity, hate, hatred, love, opinions
Why do some people so quickly and broadly attach the label of “hate” to those who disagree with them? It’s kind of a strong word, don’t you think? And very personal. Speaking for myself, there are many people whose opinions are different from mine, but whom I quite like nonetheless. Aren’t we supposed to celebrate this diversity? Granted, hateful people exist; I, myself, regret the many occasions I have been mean to someone in an argument. But I don’t think there’s anyone on this earth that I genuinely hate.
Someone might feel so passionate about an issue that she says, “If you disagree with me on this, then you’re against everything I am.” It would be a shame if she felt that way, because a person is so much more than their opinions.
I would hope that those who believe they are hated because of disagreement would take a chance on being proven wrong.